- Rules are not absolutte. They are situation-based and people-based.
- Not everything is equally important in the grand scheme of things.
- Everyone in the world makes mistakes, it doesn't have to ruin your day.
- Honesty is different than diplomacy.
- Being polite is appropriate in any situation.
- Not everyone who is nice to me is my friend.
- People act differently in public than they do in private.
- Know when you're turning people off.
- "Fitting in" is often tied to looking and sounding like you fit in.
- People are responsible for their own behaviour.
Denne liste over uskrevne regler - som ikke kommer automatisk til mennesker med autisme - fandt jeg i "Unwritten rules of Social Relationships" af Temple Grandin og Sean Barron. Selv i overskriftform som her synes jeg det er nyttigt, så jeg glæder mig til at få tid til at dykke ned i bogen.
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